1.7.10

I can't help but ponder...

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many have said that life is not about finding yourself rather about creating yourself. though I start to question, how is one suppose to know how to create themselves when they alone just so happen to be lost? enlighten me...


PS. you gals are the best..thanks for the advice and encouraging words. anxiety is such a pain..it always manage to get the best of me. HATE it!!



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38 comments:

Nana said...

amazing accesories
love those rings<3

projectvee said...

love your outfit, like usual.

and flowers pick themselves said...

adorable. i love this outfit.

xo Alison

caughtcouture.com said...

Being able to create yourself means you can be anything...you just have to know what you wanna be...

And smile. :)

PS - you have amazing shoes.

GRICIA said...

those shoes!!coollll..

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delina said...

amazing shoes and blog! love your style and this outfit is perfect! x

kingaaaa said...

this shirt is lovely!

Julls said...

If you want to create yourself you must know what you want to be. Then step by step, with patiance and in time, you will get where you wanted to be :)

And I love the shoes and the pattern of the dress !

Laura Tenshi said...

Amazing outfit. That dress has such a cool unique print and the shoes remind me of Alexander McQueen's creations. Love all your accessories too.

joana said...

love the dress and the boots :D

pensandlens said...

love the outfit...

take a breathier love...don't worry too much...take a complete time out first and contemplate...

hope you feel better soon...

take care
Sweet
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AMK said...

Wow, you look so pretty and stunning!

Keep in touch!

XOXO

Ali said...

Ahh, just so cool. :) love the laid back colors. <3

msSM said...

Ooh I said that exact phrase in my blog a week or so ago! Crazy :-D
Hmm... and in response to your question... I just find it comforting that you can create yourself, even when you are lost. If it was about finding yourself, then from a lost position, to a found position... that's a long journey! But from a lost position, to a created position... well it's up to you!!! Get imaginative, and just shine, like your blog, photos and personality does already xx

knk said...

lovely outfit you looks soo cute i like these pics

Closet full of hopes and dreams said...

Just don't focus on that! Focus on the good things, the things that went well, the things you love. Find where your flow is! I think you create and recreate yourself all the time. Every action you take says something about who you are and what you want. Focus on your strengths! Not your weaknesses. Everybody has weakness. Some people just hide theirs better. But that just makes them more boring. :) Anyway you look great while pondering!

Briana Le & Merissa Ren said...

you are beautiful. And the rings are perfect :)

xoxo merissa
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fhen said...

the outfit is so adorable
your shoes rockk!! :)
by the way what major are you taking ? :)
hope everything is okay

xoxo

Chasing Cherries said...

Amazing outfit!! Love that dress and the shoes! <3

Closet Fashionista said...

Love that outfit!! And yea I would love to enter that contest but I have no chance of winning, haha
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♥ M i m i said...

just think about all the things that are amazing about yourself.

write stuff out

whenever i can't say something to someone, i go ahead and write something. a diary entry or a story or a poem.

creating yourself is a life process. i've thought about thsi too. hey think about it, we're still so young compared to other ppl and creatures and look, trees grow to be hundreds of years old. we're so small and life's so short.

it will take a looong time to be "perfect" or a "perfect creation".

for now, just deal with everything as it comes alone and some days you'll feel more alone than ever and other days you'll see that ppl do like you and love you.

oh and maybe i WILL sing a glee song! thanks for the suggestion :D

fashionstoned said...

Great look!! love the top and the gilet!!! I wanna wear this outfit 2!

Elena S. said...

love your boots!
great blog btw ! lovely pics DEF following you!
id love for you to check my blog out
and dont forget to enter in my giveaway (gaga inspired shades)

xo elena

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Mia Delessi said...

Great outfit. The shoes are too cool.

Michelle said...

your ring caught my eye :]

i don't really know what life is about, and i don't really go on thinking about it all too much because i just want to enjoy the people and places around me. trying to "find yourself" i think is confusing because the term is so abstract. instead of being mentally aware that you are trying to find yourself, i think just analyze the characteristics that make you, you. that is who you are. and stick to those terms, although anyone can change and those characteristics can become anything you want them to be. i hope that makes sense

Sherin said...

Love the outfit. I think the vest looks so great and the dres is so pretty.

rebecca said...

Your boots are amazing (:
And when you find out the answer to that question. let me know.

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chaoskontrolowany said...

Great dress and ring! <3

Gizelle | Vanilla Ice Cream said...

because creating yourself doesn't necessarily mean you have to be on the right track all the time...you can commit mistakes, win a few ones, just as long as you know who you want to be...not necessarily find who you are.

♥ vanilla ice cream ♥

Tere said...

yes, miu miu is incredible!!
and your dress too! is very nice and perfect!
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SabinePsynopsis said...

Great pictures and outfit - I think you are creating yourself very well. xoxo

piapia said...

i like your accessories! nice blog, dear!

Emilie said...

Smile and laugh, it always helps ;)

Karoline said...

Adore the shoes, of course!

Leia said...

love your rings! :)

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Leia said...

you look great! hugs! :)

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Dorothy Souhuwat said...

nice outfit and nice blue ring..

Shirley said...

nice outfits! love it!

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